Diagnosed 22/4/22 rb told I had to go flat but now being told can have reconstruct. Had decided to have other breast taken and go flat completely but since being told I can have reconstruct I'm in two minds. Tried to talk to hubby who cheated on me a few years ago so wanted to get his opinion we have moved on but this has bought back my insecurities that he seems annoyed by. He just keeps saying I want the best health outcome... we have five children so I understand this but equally I would like his opinion on what he would prefer or pros cons from his own mouth. I know it's my choice but his opinion matters and I'm scared if I make the wrong choice I will lose him. I was 32 him 41When he went to leave me for a 22 year old so I guess my insecurities are in high alert even though he is amazing and looking after me 100% but I'm struggling. If anyone knows of any websites to help me to decide this would be a great help x