Potential Skin Cancer Melanoma.

Hi All, 

I am a 25 year old female who was diagnosed with a malignant melanoma when I was 22. Luckily I caught it early and after having an excision, I was given the all clear. However, around every 6 months I have a scare with new moles. I had 1 removed from my neck and 2 from my back around every six months. 

I have a very small mole on my nipple on my left breast. I didn't want to go at first due to it's intimate placement, but I went to my GP and they referred me on to get it photographed. I have now recieved a letter which states that "I have now had the opportunity to review all of this information and would advise that we see them as an outpatient so we can review this area and consider whether further investigations or treatment are required". 

Obviously due to the sensitive area, I would rather not have this removed unless it is necessary. However, I now feel that my health anxiety is so bad that I'm going to have to have it removed for me not to be worried every single day. How can I discuss these feelings with the consultant dermatologist?

Sorry if this is rambly and feels like there is no point to the post...I just feel so anxious and have never been offered any therapy/help - I understand that I am incredibly lucky with my experience of cancer thus far, but I feel really messed up, always anxious about my health and it is constantly hanging over me...I guess I'm just hoping someone may feel the say way and have had a similar experience with skin cancer?

 

  • Hello skincancer3

    I'm sorry ot hear that you've previously had melanoma. It's great to know that it was caught early but it sounds as if the ongoing monitoring is really impacting your life by increasing your anxiety.

    I know that many of our members here will understand how difficult it can be to live with the fear that cancer will return at some point. 

    There's some go information on the NHS website that may help you with advice and tips about managing health anxiety but I'd really encourage you to talk to your GP about how you're feeling. They will be able to arrange some support to help you learn to better manage things. 

    I'd also really encourage you to talk to your Dermatologist about how you're feeling. If you feel you're unable to talk to them then consider writing down how you're feeling and giving them that letter at the appointment. It may be that they're able to give you some information that will reassure you about some of your fears. 

    If you want to talk things through with one of our team of nurses you're welcome to call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm. I'm sure they will be happy to offer any advice, information and support that they can. 

    I hope that you're able to access the support you need and that your upcoming appointment with the Dermatologist goes smoothly. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator