Hello hayleysp87, 

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Hopefully you will hear from some of our members who have been in a similar situation before and they will be along shortly to share their experience with you. 

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Hi  Hayley,

I am Sorry too meet you here! Im 38 and have a young family. 
 

I was diagnosed with Grade 3 IDC and High Grade DCIS Lymph Neg and clear margins from my Lumpectomy. Mine was also Oestrogen Fed HER2-. 
 
My Onco Score was a 10. 
 

Due to the Fact my Grade was a 3 and my age my oncologist told me that Chemo was a good idea and I agreed.

i have had 3xFEC and 3x Docetaxil. My worries were the same! I want to do everything I can possible to ensure that is doesn't come back!  I thought to myself I am fit and healthy so let's get it done..

I am on my last one out of 6 which is on Thursday, I used the cold cap and that worked well. It's really tough but only for the first week after treatment, it is very do-able and the side effects are well managed.

I am sure that if you speak too your Oncologist and tell them how you feel they will take into account your thoughts, Do you want Chemo?? 
 

I have Radiotherapy' to come next and also Tamoxifen, I already fear if returning and don't actually know how I will get through life with it hanging over me. 
 

Love Sarah 

Hello lovely,

Sorry what is IDC that's not a term I have come across. Really sorry to hear your story :( it's horrible isn't it. How did you find out you had DCIS ? 
My issue is I have two sides one part is invasive which is grade 2. However they are not sure they 100% cleared my margins, and I also have grade 3(high grade) DCIS 40mm. So I was offered a mastectomy which I have agreed to.

Yes I would take chemo if they offered it to me I was just worried because my score was 15 they May Say no! However lkke your self my age and grade really should mirror that score. 
I am also scared jr will return due to me being young and the risk is higher in 10 years than 5 :( I guess we just have to keep a close eye on our body xx 

Have you had to have your ovaries suppressed ? Because I am also being told this will happen as well as tamoxifen xx 

I have my first oncology appointment this Thursday so we will discuss it all then but I will also be putting all this across to him, as I want the best treatment and I honestly think I need chemo, 

ah that makes sense ! See my invasive side was grade 2 ! My DCIS was grade 3 

im not sure they do mammograms when you hehe a mastectomy however if they don't remove my other side I would on that ones 

did you have genetics? It really is a scary place to be isn't it :( I'm here if you ever need a chat xx 

Hi, oh yes I am not sure if you still have a Mammogram, you must have some kind of scan. 
 

Yes have a chat when you have your appointment. But I am certain they will suggest Chemo. 
 

No nothing in the family, just bad luck, and I went to the GP she was not concerned at all. Said it was likly a Cyst but I had hurrendous burning on my chest On that side so knew it was something.  I went to the appointment in my own, my husband knew I was going but I didnt tell my Mum as my Dad had just passed away. They were very Matter of Fact when I had my Untrasound, i literally fell too the floor. 
 

I hope you get some answer on Thursday xxx 

Hey, I hope you're doing well. I was just wondering how your treatment plan went? Did you receive chemo? 

I'm going through a similar diagnosis and was told I'm unlikely to get chemo, im in my 20's and much like yourself the thought of it coming back is a cause for some anxiety.

All the best 

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sorry to jump on thread but didn’t want you to go unnoticed im not sure these ladies above are online still as posts were 1 year ago ypu msybe lucjy tgey coukd we’ll see it 

are you waiting on a Oncotype score ? 

Thank you for the reply. I'm not waiting on one as of yet, I'll be getting a mastectomy towards the end of the month and sentinel node biopsy and from there ofcourse a clearer diagnosis will come to light. 

For the time being extensive high grade dcis and a small amount IDC and hopefully it stays as just that. Is an Oncotype score something everyone gets?