Hello Summerson76

I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. It can be incredibly difficult news to hear when you're given a cancer diagnosis and it's understandable that you may be feeling overwhelmed by everything. 

I can see that you've been chatting with other members on another thread. It's good to know that you already have your surgery date arranged. Have you broached the subject with your daughter yet? I would imagine that she's already picked up on the fact that you may not be quite your usual self. Children are very perceptive about these things. 

We do have some information on our website about talking to children that you may find helpful but if you'd like some advice about talking to your daughter please do feel free to give our team of nurses a call. I'm sure they will offer any advice and support that they can. They're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. You mention that you're a single Mum and I understand how worrying it can be to break this kind of news to your child. Is there a family friend or relative that you can maybe bring into the loop to support you and that your daughter can talk to as well? Sometimes it can be helpful for the child to have someone other than the unwell parent to talk to about their thoughts and feelings. You could also think about speaking with her head of year at school or form tutor so that they can offer her any additional support through the coming weeks and months. 

Finally, I wanted to wish you well for your surgery next week. I hope that everything goes to plan and that your recovery goes smoothly. Do make sure you listen to your body and take things easy following the operation. Don't rush to do too much too soon. Lean on family and friends to help where they can. 

Keep in touch and let us know how you get on. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator