I am having in my opinion, some unique experiences. When I forget to shut a window, my late husband shines a bright turquoise light, to alert me to shut the window. I do not see him at all. When I wake up sometimes, I feel movement on the bed, like he is getting up. When my friend came one day with her little dog, the dog was on her lap, he sat up and stared into the corner of the dining room, ears up and would not move. My friend immediately said that the dog sees Tony. 

Last night I had the strangest experience, I locked up and slam locked the security gate to my bedroom and set the alarm. I played Sudoku for about an hour when I suddenly heard the gate to my bedroom slam lock. I knew that if it was an intruder, my outdoor beams would have set off the alarm as well as the rest of the indoor sensors. I did not feel scared at all as I was very close to my husband. I could almost read his thoughts. I knew it was my Tony, but I could not understand why he was alerting me. 

Is there anyone else that get similar experiences? I have been a widow now for 2 years. I am just trying to understand all of this.