Hi there ...

So so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment.... l lost my mum and I was only in 30s ... and dad 4 years later ... 

I know there us no set time to "move forward" but everyone is different ... untill your on your own 24/7 you can't know the loneliness of having no one to wake up with, chat with, eat or watch t.v with ... wanting company doesn't take away how he loved your mum, esp after 30 years  ...  he's just needing to feel something again ... he probly hasn't told you, as he knows it may hurt you ... it's the hardest thing to see one parent move on after loosing the other ...

But I'm sure if you listened to his feelings, really listened to may realise how hard it is for him .. it's just a new chapter in his book of life ... it doesn't take away from the chapters with your mum ... he'll always have them in his heart ... there's no easy solution ... just an understanding of how people grieve differently ... I hope you can find it in your heart to have your time with him, and let him find his way forward that's right for him ... sending you a vertual hug.... chrissie x