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Totally lost without my dad, mum being unsupportive

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Im struggling to cope with the loss of my daddy, he was my strength and now I've fallen out with my mummy because when I said I was upset and couldn't cope she laughed at me. They have not been together for 40 years but he was still my daddy , I know she does not know how to admit defeat with me travellers are a different breed but im hurting so so bad xx

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    Oh sweetheart, sending you a huge hug! I'm so sorry for your loss. I get your mum might not have much in the way of feelings, but he's your daddy and that love can never be replaced. Its sad she can't understand your loss. Have you got siblings you can talk to? I lost my mum 8 years ago yesterday. The pain gets a bit easier but you never stop missing them. I talk about my mum all the time and we celebrate her birthday and anniversary every year, it helps. Find someone who is happy to talk about your lovely dad and be happy at the memories. Xxx

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    Oh sweetheart, sending you a huge hug! I'm so sorry for your loss. I get your mum might not have much in the way of feelings, but he's your daddy and that love can never be replaced. Its sad she can't understand your loss. Have you got siblings you can talk to? I lost my mum 8 years ago yesterday. The pain gets a bit easier but you never stop missing them. I talk about my mum all the time and we celebrate her birthday and anniversary every year, it helps. Find someone who is happy to talk about your lovely dad and be happy at the memories. Xxx

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