Just been told Dad has 2 months to live

Am I actually normal, receive news from my Mum that dad has 2 months to live, I feel absolutely nothing.  My Dad is so important to me, just don't understand why I am not feeling anything at all, so weird.  Is this normal?  This is the third time in lockdown we have had bad news, first the diagnosis, Dad had radio therapy, didn't work, lock down two told he was palliative care and had 2-5 years.  Offered immunotherapy, but he is now too ill and told he only has two months on Thursday.  My children are beyond upset, but I just don't feel a thing.  I am quite an emotional person, just don't know if this is right or not 

  • Hello ebubbles49

    I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad's diagnosis and the recent news that you've all been given.

    Please know that what you're experiencing is very normal. When receiving news like this it's common for people to experience some degree of shock. From what you've written in your post you've been on a real rollercoaster over the past year and it's understandable that you're feeling as you are. 

    There is no right nor wrong way to feel in these situations but it can sometimes help to process and make sense of things by talking to someone. If you'd like to speak to one of our nurses you're most welcome to give them a call. I'm sure they will be happy to chat with you and offer you some support. They're available Monday to Friday from 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator