It’s been my birthday today (second one with out my husband). Just it’s these times you miss them even more . His birthday is two days after mine so it makes it even harder.
Happy Birthday love x I know it's so hard on these days , even harder than the normal days ,I am dreading valentine's but we must stay strong , complete our journey here and as time is only a human concept we shall be back in the arms of our husbands and wives before we know it. Much love x
Thank you for your message yes I do try and stay positive and enjoy each day (well in a way) as lucky to be here . So many hurdles but will concor them when they happen . Take care in these *** times !
I'm sorry for your loss I feel your pain i lost my wife to breast cancer just before Christmas her40th would've been on March 31st I just can't do this anymore want to be with her more every day
I feel your pain too brother. The only thing that keeps me going is my promise to my Em that I would keep going for the kids as she said her journey here was done but mine wasn't and that we all die and my time would come before I knew it and we would be back together. The same I'm sure your love will feel about you man and we have to honour their lives and memory by living even though its utterly unbearable most of the time. I pray everyday to find some peace and make some sense of this and I pray for you too now mate
I feel your pain too brother. The only thing that keeps me going is my promise to my Em that I would keep going for the kids as she said her journey here was done but mine wasn't and that we all die and my time would come before I knew it and we would be back together. The same I'm sure your love will feel about you man and we have to honour their lives and memory by living even though its utterly unbearable most of the time. I pray everyday to find some peace and make some sense of this and I pray for you too now mate
I no your right mate I'm homeschooling as we speak but all I want is my wife back I feel I just can't do this tasks he left he was just too hard for me I need her so much in every way
I hear you brother , Em was the ying to my yang , the light to my darkness and the Clement weather to my storms. The girl as tough as nails too mate through her life to the bitter end was strength like I've never seen. We utterly OWE it to both our girls to just keep pushing mate , I believe in the soul and she did too and I know 100% if I leave before ny time she would be livid with me on the other side as our loves were robbed of their lives , of their time with us and our kids and weddings and holidays and laughs and tears. We gotta carry on bro xxx
I love your positivity you are right you carry on because you can hear them telling you to. I know my husband would want this and to make sure the children are safe . I am here to now look after them . How old are you girls ?
Your positivity is great and I know you're right I will keep going I had to go to Sainsbury's today for the first time since my wife had died and it must've been the hardest thing I've ever done try and buy food for the boys or even work out what to cook them! I need my wife I love my wife i'm kind of fed up with constant pain but I have to go on I want to believe like you do it we will hundred percent be back together again??
Yes you will brother and that's what I say to my kids that one day you will close your eyes and open your spirit eyes and mum and dad will be there waiting for you with open arms. Science says energy cannot be destroyed or created it just is and all spiritual texts and religions state the soul (energy, consciousness whatever you label it is eternal) One day my brother you will be back together and until then I have absolutely no doubt that our loves will be watching our every move so let's make them proud mate x
They are so young mine are (son) 20 and my daughter 17 its so rubbish for them but I still want to be me for them . You sound like a strong person too , keep going there will be brighter days x
Yes they are babe and we have to be both for them now. I only seem strong because I know my time will come in a blink and until then we gotta just be the best human beings we can be xx
