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Loosing my mum 4 years ago.

Megf123
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Hi everyone I hope your all staying safe during this tough time if anyone needs someone to talk to please feel free to message me.

I posted on this forum a few years ago when I was 17, I am now 20 and my mum has been gone just over 4 years. I feel as if I miss her more now than i did when she first passed maybe thats because of the circumstances we are all experiencing at the moment i dont know? I keep having really vidid dreams about her too which really freaks me out. I try and get out for a little walk every other day to keep my mind active but im really struggling at the moment without her. 

 

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    Hi, so sorry to hear you lost your mum at such a young age. That must have been really tough. 

    I think with how the world is at the moment, everything is very hard. Family is everything at a time like this and I think it makes the grief you feel after the loss of someone even worse, if that's even possible. You just want them with you, to see their face again and hug them. 

    I hope you have lots of support around you and have people you can talk to. 

    I lost my mum suddenly 9 months ago. I miss her so much. I am struggling too. I worry that I can't remember the sound of her voice, I'm hoping it will come back to me in time. 

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    Hi there i'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mum, sending you lots of hugs during this tough time.
     

    Im sure your mum would be incredibly proud of you, im a firm believer they are looking down on us! My mums been gone just over 4 years now and I still have bad days. It doesnt get easier but I suppose you learn to cope with it somehow, you will always remember your mum and hold a special place for her in your heart :)

    I am always here for a chat x

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    I'm so sorry for your  loss  maybe your grieving for her a bit later or are you feeling sad for any other reason sorry I can't really help 

  • Offline in reply to Chris2020

    Sorry sent to the wrong person   X

  • Offline in reply to Megf123

    Thanks for your reply. I sometimes think it's easier to talk about it to people who have gone through the same thing. 

    Life seems so unfair. When I read the posts in this forum my heart breaks at what some people are going through. 

    I was 34 when my mum passed away and I feel far too young to have lost a parent.  It's so cruel that you were robbed of your mum at such a young age, I can't imagine what that must have been like. 

    I guess we just have to get used to the feeling of heartbreak and sadness and the ups and downs ahead. X

     

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