I lost my wife 2 yrs ago through cancer I still have my moments of tears and anguish did I do enough for her in the last hours of her life did I tell her I loved her?I really can't remember but it does ease with time you think your pain will never end but it does it will never disappear altogether but as I said it will get easier don't keep your pain to yourself they say time is a great healer this is true but sharing with someone close can help....Don't be afraid to let your grief show it's not wrong to cry

Good luck on your journey

That is so true, it never goes away but think as time goes on you learn to adapt and have to learn to live on your own. Its not easy but life goes on.

I was happily married for 36 years, was childhood sweathearts  then suddenly on my own, i think of his words telling me i will get through it because im strong and independent, still very hard.

take care and keep going 

That is so true, it never goes away but think as time goes on you learn to adapt and have to learn to live on your own. Its not easy but life goes on.

I was happily married for 36 years, was childhood sweathearts  then suddenly on my own, i think of his words telling me i will get through it because im strong and independent, still very hard.

take care and keep going