i visited saw my mother after she died ..... but others don't.   I think you need to go with your feelings and not beat yourself up if you can't.    I agree that the funeral home do make the person look alright, but it is as if the person has left the body, so remember he lives in your heart now.... x

i visited saw my mother after she died ..... but others don't.   I think you need to go with your feelings and not beat yourself up if you can't.    I agree that the funeral home do make the person look alright, but it is as if the person has left the body, so remember he lives in your heart now.... x