Hi there,

Best of luck, i'm not going to lie and say this lockdown gets easier as time goes own because it most likely won't. Please do try and get in contact with old friends, maybe organise a video call with someone twice a week or something as simple as that.

I understand your pain, I reccently just lost my mum and it sadens me that this is the one year i've not been able to have much contact with her in fear of making her condition even worse. When i'm upset, I try swade my train of throught to a happy memory of them and smile - this is the best you can do and i'm sure your husband wouldn't want you to be upset. I also have a good understanding of the loneliness you may experience of the coming weeks, my gran lives by her own and lost her son, daughter and best friend all within last two months - she says how lonely she keeps getting but each day I try and call her once in morn, lunch and then evening - these little points of contacts even ifs its for 30 seconds do make a difference.

Stay safe, stay busy and so sorry for you loss x

Hi there

Thank you for your reply, i have two amazing children one at uni and one at home .  They keep me going and my amazing puppy too well she is just over a year now .i have good family and friends but I just miss my husband so much as we had been together 26happy years .  Sorry for your loss too but good words remember the fun times and keep smiling x