Hi there ..

How crule ... it always seem to happen at these times, when people should come together ... but it seems to bring out the worse most times ... I was so lucky when my parents went ... us three girls held on tight and did everything together ...

But I would say , if I were you and your mum, I'd do something with both of you .. write down your feelings to him ... play some music that reminds you of him .. you don't need his body there .. that's not him now, he's free and will watch over you both as you do it ... have a tea after ... toast him .. you don't need others or a church... he'll be tucked up in your heart now... and then you've nothing to thank them for ... and don't have to look at them ... you do your own thing ... I lost my sister at the start of covid .. so wasn't allowed in at the service ... only 10 .. 4 of us were outside .. but we were o.k .. and managed to get though ... so my heart goes out to you ... sending you both a vertual hug ... Chrissie xx

Hi there ..

How crule ... it always seem to happen at these times, when people should come together ... but it seems to bring out the worse most times ... I was so lucky when my parents went ... us three girls held on tight and did everything together ...

But I would say , if I were you and your mum, I'd do something with both of you .. write down your feelings to him ... play some music that reminds you of him .. you don't need his body there .. that's not him now, he's free and will watch over you both as you do it ... have a tea after ... toast him .. you don't need others or a church... he'll be tucked up in your heart now... and then you've nothing to thank them for ... and don't have to look at them ... you do your own thing ... I lost my sister at the start of covid .. so wasn't allowed in at the service ... only 10 .. 4 of us were outside .. but we were o.k .. and managed to get though ... so my heart goes out to you ... sending you both a vertual hug ... Chrissie xx