It been a year now since my husband passed away and I still cannot cope with the thought of going in his wardrobe and clearing it I don’t even open it it’s too hart breaking .
You don't have to do it if you don't feel up to it.
When my dad passed in 2016 I told my mum to just keep my dad's stuff as it was. Wouldn't make any difference to get rid of it and it's stuff that I consider memories of him. I took with me some of his jumpers.
There isn't a law that says you have to get rid of their belongings x. If you wanna hold on to them that's perfectly fine. If you can't face opening the wardrobe that's fine. You do only what you feel like doing. Don't feel obliged to do anything you're not ready for.
You don't have to do it if you don't feel up to it.
When my dad passed in 2016 I told my mum to just keep my dad's stuff as it was. Wouldn't make any difference to get rid of it and it's stuff that I consider memories of him. I took with me some of his jumpers.
There isn't a law that says you have to get rid of their belongings x. If you wanna hold on to them that's perfectly fine. If you can't face opening the wardrobe that's fine. You do only what you feel like doing. Don't feel obliged to do anything you're not ready for.
