I posted yesterday to say my mother, following a CT scan, is showing thickening of the stomach and lesions on the liver consitant with cancer. She has been referred to a Gastroentorologist at the hospital and we are just waiting for a date for an endoscopy/biopsy.

I lost my dad to cancer when I was 23 now I am 34 and in my mind on the verge of losing not only another parent, but my best friend, my rock, my absolute reason to function and live. I cannot imagine my life without her. But here I am typing this. I am broken, completely and utterly. 

Anyone have any grief coping techniques?

Dave