Missing mum

Hi I am missing my mum so much, she was taken into hospital at the time when vistors were not allowed. Three days later she died. We did manage to spend the last hour with her but so was afraid to hold her hand or hug her because of the conovirus and passing it to my dad.  I need to know  that I loved her and miss her so much 

  • Hi Pettiford,

    I'm very sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how tough this must be. No doubt the emotions will be difficult and it may take a while to come to terms with things, but make sure to give yourself all the time you need to grieve. Hopefully you have others around you who you can speak to about this - it's important to speak to others if you can, and hopefully writing things down on here also helps a little. If you feel you could do with additional support, speaking to an organisation like Cruse could be helpful.

    Sending condolences and wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi im so sorry to hear your sad news i know  what your going im going to say i know how you feel because I don't we all deal with as loss in r own way .

    Im not going to say it gets easier because it doesn't my mum passed away on the 28th of March due to cancer iv never felt so lost in my life i find myself talking her in my head it helps just to clear my mind .

    Please stay strong your not on your own theres so many of us feeling the hurt your feeling now just be kind to yourself and keep safe xxxx