Hi, finding everyone's posts so comforting. I thought it was only me feeling the way I do. After 45 years together and almost 40 years of marriage, I know no other 'me'. I know me the homemaker, the problem solver, the taxi, the hospital partner, the home nurse, the worrier, the Carer but I don't know me the survivor, the remainer - this is all new to me and 11 months down the line it is no easier. I find distraction helps but it doesn't take the aching pain away. Is it time I need or will I never really come to terms with the loss? I don't expect to 'get over it' How can anyone do that?
