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I lost my mum to cancer in February still does not seem real

Cleob123
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I lost my mum in February she was only 53 my was was battling with kidney cancer what spread to her lungs and her brain witch she ended up with 21 brain Tumours still does not feel real I just can't get rid off this anxious and angry feeling one minute I'll be ok and the next Minuit I just so agrivated at the slightest thing I feel like I haven't greeved propaly I feel I have to be strong for my younger siblings as they are now living with me I don't like to talk to them as I don't want to upset them 

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    Hi Cleob,

     

    I'm very to here about you losing you mum to cancer.

    I lost my brother 4 years ago to cancer and found the best thing that I ever did was talk to my brother about it. It wasn't easy as us blokes don't talk about feeling. But I was diagnosed last year with cancer and found it easier to talk to him about it as we had talked previously. 

     

    It's not about protecting your siblings its about sharing your pain and memories, get it out in the open. They will probably be feeling the same as you. 

     

    I hope that things get better for you.

    Jason

     

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