Dealing with loss

I lost my dad to cancer when i was 12 years old, i'm now 18 and i have no idea when dealing with this is meant to get easier. I'm just looking for someone who understands, because none of my friends have lost their dads or been through anything similar so if anyone has any advice, please help me out. Thank you 

  • Hi 

    that's very young to lose your dad . I'm so sorry. I would have lost my dad around the same time as you as it was 6 years ago . He was 77 and I was 47 at the time . Even though I'm a lot older than you I miss him every minute of everyday. I still wake up in the night and can't believe he's not here . My mum is terminally ill now and I know she won't be with me long . It's so hard especially for your age . There will be organisations out there that you can maybe call and talk to someone who understands. It's Father's Day today and I just miss him so much . Just remember all the lovely memories you have of him . Nobody can take those away from you . I'm so sorry you are feeling this way . Try and get someone to talk to xx

  • Hi, i'm so sorry for your loss. I know it's a traumatising experience to go through at any age. And I'm sorry to hear about your mum too, that must be so hard for you right now. One thing i learnt was take lots of pictures before you lose them, i wish i had more. Father's day is really a tough time for me and my brother and i'm sure it is for you too. Thank you for your help and for being so kind, it really helped me hearing someone else's story who can relate. I'll look into finding someone i can call for support, thank you for your help :) xx

  • No problem at all - happy to try and help you . You take care xx