Hi ... I'm so sorry for your loss, I too lost my Husband last October and same as you am struggling with this. I'm so sorry I don't have words of wisdom, I just want you to know you are not alone...there are some lovely people on here and I'm sure once they read your post will be able to offer you some advise and words of comfort
look after yourself & draw on any support that you have around you, that's the only way I can get through this...
I get that this is the last place any of us want to be... do you have family to support you, I do hope so x
as I said there's a few people on here and they can explain things better... unfortunately they're grief has been longer than ours, but it's hard to believe they're gone isn't it. My Austin was only 45 life wasn't meant to end now, we had too much to do and look forward to.. I imagine just the same as you and your husband
as I said I'm sorry I don't have words of wisdom for you, cause I'm still seeking them and trying to find some kind of reason for the cruelness that cancer causes x
My Hugh was 65 but full of life and plans. I'm so sorry , your husband was very young. Not once when Hugh was ill did he ever complain, his approach to it all was admired by everyone; including all the medical staff. Nothing worked but he never lost hope. Treatments worked and then , after the celebrations and hope given, a few months later he got told they weren't working anymore. I do have family but not living with me , I also have some wonderful friends but my son and daughter have lost their Dad and sometimes family are too close. Then, in the middle of February, my oldest and closest friend who I had known for nearly 52 years , since school, passed away. It was very sudden, although she had cancer, it had been going ok . Thank you for taking the time to read and reply x
so sorry for your loss I too lost my husband last September . We had been together for 26 happy years with two children . I am too struggling especially with this covid19 going on it has set me back when I was moving on . I’m happy to chat to you as this help to talk to someone going through the same as I do not know anyone else that is going through this x
I have accepted your friend request. Very sorry for your loss . My husband and I were also married for 26 years and had 2 children. I think it was the Covid lockdown that worsened things for me also . Finding things very hard . I've only just discovered this site so not completely sure how it works. Perhaps I should have messaged you back differently after accepting friend request. I'm not good with reaching out for support or help but struggling badly x
Hi , so sorry for your loss. I also lost my wife last July. I wish I could give you some comfort, but afraid I can't. It seeme to me like one continuous struggle. It doesn't seem like living just surviving. I hope things get easier for all of us soon. Mike
