1st Mothers Day without my Mum.

Hi Everyone 

I lost my mum to metastatic kidney cancer last October and this is going to be my 1st mothers day without her which im not looking forward to as i always made a fuss of her and we did nice things, I am a mother to 4 myself so im trying to keep it going for them.

I just miss her so much and have struggled since loosing her as it all happened so fast and i wasnt ready for her to go.

Any advice would be much appreciated x x x x

  • Hi there

    Seems like a lot of us eighties kids are losing our parents now. It's so sad. My mum has been diagnosed with stage 4 bowel colorectal cancer last week. My husband and I are devastated and my daughter can't stop crying. Mum doesn't want to die she's so scared. They might operate but mum might be too weak for the op and if so it will be palliative care only as she's diabetic to. 
    mum is such a vibrant outdoorsy woman it's killing me to see her so ill. I feel like running away but I know I can't. Losing your mum is the hardest thing in the world. I can't smile anymore. The world seems such a different place. My heart goes out to you and all others who have lost a treasured loved one x

  • Hi 

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. I was exactly the same and it's been difficult since mum's been gone as I've recently had a baby  you and your husband need to get your heads around before you can be of any use to anyone else especially your mum. Feel free to private message me anytime for anything x x sending you big hugs x x x