Hi i feel your pain i lost my mum 3 weeks ago miss her so much. As she said life will go on without me abd you need to be strong. Its not easy at this time of year. Take care your not alone x

Im so sorry for your loss i dont know how to cope or feel we have the funeral 7th jan and im scared as i havent cried xx

Hello

So so sorry for the loss of your Dad.  Its such a shock for you.  Just to say thinking of you at this most sad time and sending huge hugs.  Your not alone.  Look after you.  One morning, one afternoon, one day at a time. Take care xx

I spent 3 months watching mum die she never got out of hospital, she got home to die its was awful to watch. I have never properly cried either i stay strong for my dad and my own family. My mum was my rock we spoke 4 times a day, take a day at a time. Everybody deals with grief differently, even at the funeral i never cried. Mum wanted her funeral to be a party with bright colours and music, she had a good send off it was easier. I get comfort from my mums strength she taught me to keep plodding on. Its hard i struggle all the time, she is not coming back i need to keep living. I am the youngest of 3 my brothers are so much older than me mum was my best friend.

All i can say is once the funeral is over its like a closure you will slowly get by. I went to see mum in the coffin it helped me, as she died a horribly it did not look like my mum. In the coffin she looked at peace.

My.mum was tough on me emotionally she was straight to the point, it has taught me to be resilient. This year has been terrible with my own health issues my mum etc. I have taken it a day at a time, stay focused if you can.

Take care x

I'm sorry for your loss

I lost my daughter 6 months ago to cervical cancer she was 25 my heart is broke but she left behind her 7 year old son who now lives with me and keeps me going  life does have to go on but i don't think it gets easier 

i visit my daughter grave everyday it's the only way I cope  

you Will find a way of coping that will help you xxx Vicki xxx

Im so sorry for your loss i cant imagine what you are going through as she was your daughter.I get comfort knowing my dad is in no more pain and he is with his family.I hope u find some sort of comfort at some point sending you lots of love and hugs please take care and message me any time god bless xxxxx

Thankyou for the friend request that was nice of you 

I find comfort from knowing my daughter isn't in pain too life is so unfair hun just wish they would find a cure

I know i wish there was i wish i could say something to help you but i have no words and dont know what your going through.Just remember she is at peace now and if u at any time you would like to chat im here xxx

No we have it on the 7th jan not looking forward to it but trying to stay strong for mum.I meant to ask you where are u from hun?xxxxx