Mum died recently she was ready to go and all in all I felt sad but relieved that her suffering was over. Her only worry was my dad and she was so right. He has become an issue and I cannot cope with him. He is in grief but very difficult to deal with. He suddenly cannot do anything. Expects me to cook and clean for him. Often refuses to answer the phone so I have to drive to his home. He says he is ill and when I take him to the doctors he has nothing physically wrong at all. He wasted the time of emergency services last week insisting I call. He refuses to eat when I put a meal on the table. I find he is mentally torturing me.
