My partner died on April after  a 2yr battle with cancer .I'm saddened by some of the posts. I was able to care for my partner with the help of my 3 children until the last day,we have all tried to continue supporting each other but things have changed, in the last fee weeks the reality has really hit me and i struggle to do anything, my gp hasn't been helpful referring me to the local mental health team,i have deakt with them for years for a family member and they can't help. I would like to speak to someone with the experience of loss and caring for a loved one with cancer and be help to those who are affected now. My partner was a great dad and my friend and it was a privilege to care for him despite the tears and rows. I need to find a way for us all to move forward we will never forget him we have a lifetime of memories but day to day lifeis hardand would love advice on how to do it.

My sympathies and admiration to everyone who has gone through this