I lost my mum in May 2012 to small cell lung cancer , something I can never get over . She was diagnosed in April just 23 days before she passed . They suspected it before but confirmed it in April . The doctor refused to give her cemo even though she wanted it .basically sent us away with nothing . I never left her side from that day , I moved into her home went on leave from work . No macmillan or any form of doctors came to help me . Me & my family had to take her to doctors ourselves for blood test as they wanted to keep an eye on her sodium levels . She was given no proper pain medication . All she had was tramadol which was prescribed before the cancer for something else . Which she refused to take , so she had no medication at all . Was just me & my sister there when she died . We both had to be questioned by police . Doctor to me blackmailed my sister , because she questioned their lack of care towards our mum . He basically said if we wanted to ask questions , then he would not sign death certificate , and an autopsy have to be done . Which we knew my mum wouldn't want . So she agreed to leave the questions . Nobody did nothing to help us , while we was been full time carers for my mum. I hope nobody else has the same experience my family had . I miss my mum each & every day my pain has never eased. It gets worse as time passes I miss her more .
