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i Miss my mum / best friend so much

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it’s been 8 weeks and I’m missing my mum more and more , she was my best friend , we did everything together . We where told in feb she had a brain tumour and was curable , no one done nothing for her , didn’t start treatment just talked about it !!! Then it was too late no matter how hard I tried to get her to eat etc etc she passed away in her own bed with my dad her mum me my sister and brother !!!! She was the most amazing lady ever our whole world is broken . I have no friends here where I live now no one to talk too , I’m just trying to be strong for my girls my dad and my Nan , bit all I want is my mum x

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    Hi pinkheart,

     

    Sorry to hear about your mum. Losing our mums is so hard. Its 16 weeks today that I lost my mum who was also my best friend. It was so sudden and she was only unwell for 11 days. We thought she would make a full recovery but suffered a major brain haemorrhage out of the blue.

    I am sad all the time and just cannot see how I will live without her. I am lucky to have a lovely partner and daughter to keep me going.

    Please dont feel the need to be strong for anyone. I have cried every day since mum died and havdnt hidden my emotions from anyone. Although I wouldn't be able to be 'strong ' I don't try to be either and I think crying whenever my body needs to has got me through so far.

    Take care of yourself and carry on talking on here if it helps.

    Cheryl x

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