My sister in law of 39 years aged 55 died only 3 weeks ago what began initially being treated for a frozen shoulder for a long time, My brother got her to see her GP ASAP as physically she was exhausted with excruciating pain. Had blood tests which eventually lead her to be hospitalised due to possible infection, After discharge she was soon to be admitted again .... which sadly she never returned home ... her diagnosis initiatially was a sarcoma in her left arm ... worst senorio was thought to be the loss of her arm .. but at least she would be alive, because my brother understood and would endeavour to care for her deeply as he was totally devoted and loved her so much .... having being told a biopsy was to be carried out to see if the tumour could be removed , in the 5 weeks in hospital it never got carried out as she became more ill , in the 5th week she was transdered to HDU as her oxygen levels were very low, devastating news was then told that her primary cancer came from her lungs and now metastatic ..... my brother did so well, he was with her every day visiting and helping her with personal care he just loved her so much, when he told me that she probably wouldn’t make it through the weekend we were just numb , sadly she died 9 hours later with my brother at her side , her funeral was last week, My brother is now in bits he is finding it so hard to comes terms and misses her like I’ve never seen him before, I wish I could take away the pain, just never seen this coming and happened so quick , we were planning so many good time ahead, I feel so sick , my body aches for him, I just don’t know how he is going to cope and worry and cry all the time, they 2 peas in a pod , he looks so empty , I just don’t know what to do... seeing like this is killing me
