I have posted a reply on here but I wanted to introduce myself.
I lost my dad 15 months ago to liver and pancreactic cancer. It happened very quickly, no idea he had cancer. Went into hospital on a Tuesday and died early hours on the Tuesday the following week. Having not yet come to terms with it my mum was diagnosed on Saturday having been taken into hospital with clots on her lung. The cancer has gone to the neck, hip and also stomach. She is being offered radio therapy at present. I feel scared, anxious, alone, angry.
Im finding work, cleaning and general everyday life just too much. I dont want to talk to people. Going into a supermarket or even to put fuel in the car is just too much. I dont know how to function anymore and wondering how to cope.
Even just to talk on here is comforting. I have been offered counselling but speaking to others who are going through the same is far more comforting and supportive.
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