Beautifull daughter.

In 2016 my beautiful daughter complained of pain in her tummy,she visited the GP for six month they put it down to iritable bowl syndrome,after that they decided to send her for a scan,she was a matron in a hospital so accepted what the GP said.        When the results came back they gave her three to six months to live which we could not be leave it. She was 50 every thing to live for 2 beautiful children a good job and a great daughter. She was the braves person I know she just thought about how we all would cope with out her. I miss her every day as she lived by me so I would see most days.My husband way of coping is not to talk about her but i need to keep her memory alive and keep talking to my friends about her. I am thinking about all of you who are going threw what we went threw and still going threw.Love to all of you.

  • Hi there ...

    So so sorry your going through this heartbraking time ... l think no other pain is worse then loosing a child ... they are our babies no matter their age ... that cord they cut at birth, just leaves an invisible one that stays forever ... 

    It's so sad your hubby , her dad can't talk .. so many men were brought up to hold feelings in .. when in truth, it's far far more painful in the end, coz that pain just stays growing with no way of getting out .. men need to show their feelings, without feeling vulnerable ... it's sharing tears, hugs, memories... and doing it together ... but it's finding if there's a way to get them to open up .. most men need to FIX things . Something like that couldn't be fixed ... 

    But my hunny, you do and talk as much as you can .. write your daughter a letter each week .. address it to heaven and post it ... you never know ... maybe there's a post up there ... my mum's been gone 30 years this year .. we all talk about her often .. we just brought her along this journey called life ... she lives in our hearts now ..  I'm sure your daughter will look down and be very proud of her mummy ..

    Don't forget those grandkids are half of her ... she will live through them .. every time you cuddle them, or telling them you love them, you'll be telling her too ...

    Sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie