Oh wow ... how wonderful wanting to reach out to others, even though your hurting too ... there's so many that come on here that loose a parent to cancer ... if you look at different times , you'll find those needing someone too ... 

Loosing a mum so young is so hard ... I lost both my parents in my 30s. .. and I felt cheated ... but I never had a place like this to come to, and share those feelings ... although that was a long long time ago, I remember like it was yesterday ... 

If ever you need to chat I'm here most days ... but I really hope you get a reply from someone younger who can help each other through ... I'm sending you one of my spiecial nanny hugs I save for my granddaughter (in pic) I'm sure she would want you to have one ... Chrissie

I’m so sorry to hear about your mum.  I am going through exactly the same thing at the moment. I lost my mum almost 4 weeks ago. She was 66 and I feel far too young to have lost my mum in my thirties. I’m happy to chat anytime xx

I lost my lovely mum this morning. Totally lost and so very sad. This is such a cruel disease and takes the best ones from us. We have to remember the precious memories and cry, smile, scream, etc whenever we want to. If you want to chat I am here xxx

Hi there I’m going through experiencing my mums loss at the moment too x she died when I was 11 and even 4 yrs later I’m still grieving it seems now more than ever. I joined this website was because I find it hard talking to my mates at school who just haven’t been through the same as I have x if u need someone to talk to I’m a great listener and I know what ur going through x

Hi, I lost my mum on 25th February . I’m 35 years old, she was only 62. 

I’m struggling beyond belief so I’d like to chat too. X

My mum died suddenly four weeks ago. |She had a heart attack, but she had ovarian cancer which I was told would not be progressive very quickly.  She lived with me I was her carer. We were so very close. She was my best friend in the world and i hoped we had many years ahead. We were watching television 2 hours before she died,  laughing and chatting about her favourite programme,. She died in my arms, it was the most devasting and traumtic experience of my life. It all started to happen so fast I am devastated, I am so lost, she was kind, loving and the most amazing mum. I cannot move on,  I have a projector of the last hour in my head and cannot turn it off. This heartbreak is so so painful, I am organised and control every aspect of my life but this is new territory for me.

I have read so many painful accounts posted by other people who have lost their mum, I needed to read them as I feel very alone and it does help reading about other people who are in a similiar place to me but it does not help with the pain. You only get one mum and I guess you only feel this once. I want to say thank you to others for posting their grief, I am not some one who will will ask for help I am having to stay strong for the rest of the family, my grief is private, my solace is finding others online.

I am so so sorry if you lost your mum too, and I hope you can like me seek some comfort in knowing you are not alone

Sorry for your loss 

my mum passed away aged 54 almost 4 years ago due to multiple glioblastomas, still dealing with it

Hey, 

First off, I'm so sorry to hear that your Mum has passed away. But you offering to be there for someone else too at this horrible time really is testament to what a wonderful, caring person you are. Having lost many family members to this cruel illness, I completely understand, and I will be hear to listen to anything you want to talk about, the bad, the angry, the sad. You'll find many friends on here, but please message me any time you want to, I'll add you as a friend now. 

Lots of love and light, 

Alex xxx