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I miss my mum so much .

Natisha
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I lost my mum only a few weeks ago. From bone and lung cancer , only diagnosed in November.

My mum was my world, I told my mum everything and she was always their for me,

I loved her so much and wanted to go with my mum.

Only two weeks on after mums cremation I just struggle every day. I don't want to be around anyone.

My partner is the only person and my two dogs I feel I want.

I caint seem to go back to work as I'm afraid of being around people.

I don't no how to cope or deal with the loss of my mum.

Does anyone have any advice please .

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    Hi, I lost my lovely mum on the 8th of march, I do get how bad you feel, it's a real, physical ache that is always there, and some days I just want to die myself, it's only my love for my partner, brothers and pets- I don't have kids-1dead- that stops me.My mum was my world and my life is pointless without her.I don't have any words of wisdom for you, sorry, but it helps to know your not alone in your sorrow, and other people are enduring their own nightmares just as you are.Keep going, keep trying, miss your mum and get through another day, you can do it. Much love x
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    Hi, so sorry for your loss.

    i lost my mum in january 2017 to bile duct cancer she died 11 weeks after being diagnoised.                               We were in total shock my mum was so brave and was only bothered about her family and how we would cope.  I like you told mum everything and i miss that so much. I do not remember her funeral i was in a daze. We spoke and lenght before she died and i treasure every word she said to me. The pain is unbareable at times but i try to think of our last conversations and how she told me to live my life and look after my dad and grandchildren whom she adored. I can not say it gets better with time but you learn to carry on it took me along time to pull myself together and try be the person mum wanted me to be. It is like a constant ache but it does get easier. I tell myself to do what mum wanted.

    Try thinking of the good times im sure your mum would want the best for you and to live your life to the fullest

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    Hi, so sorry for your loss.

    i lost my mum in january 2017 to bile duct cancer she died 11 weeks after being diagnoised.                               We were in total shock my mum was so brave and was only bothered about her family and how we would cope.  I like you told mum everything and i miss that so much. I do not remember her funeral i was in a daze. We spoke and lenght before she died and i treasure every word she said to me. The pain is unbareable at times but i try to think of our last conversations and how she told me to live my life and look after my dad and grandchildren whom she adored. I can not say it gets better with time but you learn to carry on it took me along time to pull myself together and try be the person mum wanted me to be. It is like a constant ache but it does get easier. I tell myself to do what mum wanted.

    Try thinking of the good times im sure your mum would want the best for you and to live your life to the fullest

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