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Coping with loss I miss my mum so much .

I miss my mum so much .

Offline Natisha over 8 years ago

I lost my mum only a few weeks ago. From bone and lung cancer , only diagnosed in November.

My mum was my world, I told my mum everything and she was always their for me,

I loved her so much and wanted to go with my mum.

Only two weeks on after mums cremation I just struggle every day. I don't want to be around anyone.

My partner is the only person and my two dogs I feel I want.

I caint seem to go back to work as I'm afraid of being around people.

I don't no how to cope or deal with the loss of my mum.

Does anyone have any advice please .

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Offline dancinman66 over 7 years ago

Dear Natisha

im sitting crying as on Saturday it’s 7 years since I lost my mum who was and is my best friend.

no day is easy but if I can say every sad memory is a good one as it shows that her life has made, and is making you who you are today.

all I can say is it will always hurt, but that means you care, which means her life was worthwhile making someone as wonderful as you.

please just think of something she taught you and showed you, and try share that with others.

that will make her proud.

i still try live up to all the good my mother did, and will never make it, but I do it in memory of her.

likewise , do all in memory of your mother

dont feel sad, feel proud that you are prolonging her legacy

your friend in cancer
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Offline dancinman66 over 7 years ago

Dear Natisha

im sitting crying as on Saturday it’s 7 years since I lost my mum who was and is my best friend.

no day is easy but if I can say every sad memory is a good one as it shows that her life has made, and is making you who you are today.

all I can say is it will always hurt, but that means you care, which means her life was worthwhile making someone as wonderful as you.

please just think of something she taught you and showed you, and try share that with others.

that will make her proud.

i still try live up to all the good my mother did, and will never make it, but I do it in memory of her.

likewise , do all in memory of your mother

dont feel sad, feel proud that you are prolonging her legacy

your friend in cancer
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