Hi - I'm Lis, my husbad sadly died from mouth cancer when our children were 3yrs 9months, 26 months and 9 months. It's a scary time, and a difficult one when trying to juggle children and treatment / hospital / hospice care, and being a "nurse" yourself. The children are now 14, 12 and 11. We made it, it's still just me and the kids, but we have a fab and somewhat chaotic existence. There are some memories I treasure, even from that awful time, and there is a life after...  x