Mom passed away

Hi my name is ann i just lost my mom on Nev 26 2017 she had spot for 5yrs never grown .she fell in oct and hurt her hip end up in the nursing home for 2 weeks so we can take care of her .so she had pt for a while. And abaut 2/3weeks she sad her lung where hurting her . she always get a cold or anmonia if i spelled it right .we took her to the hospital and they told us she had 4 spots that is really big .so we took to her lung dr. He said about 6mos she has .how can you tellyour mom that. Atfer she already went through before she had a half a lung yrs ago that scared her .plus the dr told she would not get it again.so we just felt it was riht to say only one spot was grow .the she had..we all were there with her when she passed at home .grandkids_etc because she had 17 and 6kids of her own .we will miss vary much!!!

  • Hi I lost my mum 5 days ago how do I cope with Christmas and my kids

  • Sorry to learn of your mum's death - it does sound as though she had a good send-off with so many children and grandchildren.  Think how pleased she would have been knowing how much love there was in the family. A difficult Christmas though for both yourself and Lwalker - very sad and strange with your mums not around.   The kids needing to enjoy their Christmas although it does no harm to have them know that there is a sad feeling because of their grandmother dying.  I am guessing your mums would want you to give the children a great Christmas even though it will be hard to do all the usual things.  When everything has calmed down a bit you will be able to take stock and live through your grief.  I am sorry - I lost my mum some years ago and I know how nothing prepares you for it.

  • So sorry to hear you’re news. We lost my mum suddenly in July it is very difficult to try and keep things normal but I know my mum would want us to do Christmas as normal as possible for her grandkids and us. It’s going to be tough but the kids do keep us going