My dad has gone

My beautiful dad fell asleep for the last time on December 1st. I had been him for 50 hours holding his hand watching him suffer. I can’t breathe, I can’t stop crying and shouting. I am so angry, so sad, I feel like I want to die. The pain is so much more than I ever imagined. I don’t know what to do 

  • Hi Bunni, 

    I'm so sorry to read that your dad has passed away and on behalf of everyone here at Cancer Chat I would like to offer you our heartfelt condolences.

    Many members here have been with their parents and loved ones when they have passed away so will really understand what you are going through right now and I'm sure some of them will be along soon to offer their support and advice.

    I've also included some information we have on our website about coping with grief which I hope will be of some help to you at this time. 

    Keep chatting to us Bunni and remember that we are always here when you need us and will do what we can to help you through this difficult period in your life.

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Nothing that I can say will ease the pain, but I want to let you know that I am thinking of you and sending hugs to comfort you. I'm glad for you and him that you got to spend those last couple of days with him so that he knew how much you loved him. Rachel x