Harder at this time of year

Hi everyone,

Just wanted to say I feel for all of you who have lost loved ones recently It hurts to lose them at any time of year but I do feel it becomes harder the nearer it is to Christmas. I lost my mother nearly twelve years ago. She was i  hospital all over Christmas and passed away not long after. Then just over two years ago I lost my father who lived in Canada about this time of year. Though we do our best to enjoy Christmas I have to admit its just not the same anymore. Christmas is a time we consider to be a family time and when someone is missing it just doesnt feel right. 

Our lost loved ones are always in our thoughts but never more so than at this time of year.

Sending kind thoughts your way, Brian

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  • Hi there Brian... your so right, it brings back memories as my mum went too, 4 weeks before Xmas.. came across this poem, seems apt to how we feel ... hope you don't mind me sharing it ...

    Every day without you, since you had to go ....                                                                                                         is like summer without sunshine, and winter without snow ....                                                                               I wish I could just talk to you, there's so much I would say ......                                                                              life has changed so very much, since you went away ....

    I miss the bond between us,  and I miss your kind support...                                                                                  your in my mind, and in my heart, and every Christmas thought ....                                                                       I'll always feel you close to me, and though your out of sight .....                                                                          I'll search for you among the stars, that shine on Christmas night   xx

     

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  • Hi there Brian... your so right, it brings back memories as my mum went too, 4 weeks before Xmas.. came across this poem, seems apt to how we feel ... hope you don't mind me sharing it ...

    Every day without you, since you had to go ....                                                                                                         is like summer without sunshine, and winter without snow ....                                                                               I wish I could just talk to you, there's so much I would say ......                                                                              life has changed so very much, since you went away ....

    I miss the bond between us,  and I miss your kind support...                                                                                  your in my mind, and in my heart, and every Christmas thought ....                                                                       I'll always feel you close to me, and though your out of sight .....                                                                          I'll search for you among the stars, that shine on Christmas night   xx

     

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