struggling to cope

cancer as affected my family,in 2015 my dad was diagnosed with prostrate cancer,and 5th April 2016 my beautiful mum was diagnosed with lung cancer,my beautiful mum only 68 lost her battle to cancer on 29th April 2016 exactly 24 days after diagnosed,20 minutes before my mum got diagnosed on 5th April,my dad was told he was in remission,just after mum passed away,my cousin was diagnosed with lung cancer now we've been told he hasn't long to live,during this my husband started an affair and now left me,I'm hate cancer and how it the effects families 

  • Hi there jojo... well you've had more then your share of trauma... your head must be all over the place ...cancer has no compassion... may be it was all to much for your husband ... it's the reason ... not an excuse...maybe if he did this while your grieving, you'll be better off in the long run ... have you any children , siblings that can give you some support to help you through this ..you can always phone help line on here or mcmillan to chat if it all gets too much ....

    Hopefully you'll get some others with more different ideas or help soon ... butility sending you a big caring hug ... chrisie xx

  • Hello jojo I lost my husband in January to bike duct cancer, my life has been torn apart. I have 3 grandchildren who are helping through this terrible time. As Chriss said do you have any children? You can draw your strength through them Xxxx