Hi there I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband a few months ago l really feel for you.I too see my husband not wanting to go.The only way I have coped if you can call it that is trying to imagine my husband at peace,not suffering anymore. Hold on to your memories and the love between you. I listen to favourite music and light a candle every day.My experience has been hard but I cry and talk to my Jim we have no choice when they go .Hold on to whatever helps .Hugs and warmth to you Have you talked to your doctor mine was so good .people say you are depressed he said it's shock you feel and can take time to recover I do hope things ease for you eventually we never forget how lwonderful it was to have them no one can take that away my lovexxTake care chris

Hi there I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband a few months ago l really feel for you.I too see my husband not wanting to go.The only way I have coped if you can call it that is trying to imagine my husband at peace,not suffering anymore. Hold on to your memories and the love between you. I listen to favourite music and light a candle every day.My experience has been hard but I cry and talk to my Jim we have no choice when they go .Hold on to whatever helps .Hugs and warmth to you Have you talked to your doctor mine was so good .people say you are depressed he said it's shock you feel and can take time to recover I do hope things ease for you eventually we never forget how lwonderful it was to have them no one can take that away my lovexxTake care chris