Hello Jackie, I would like to offer my sympathy at this difficult time for you, I lost my husband last year after a 6 month battle with lung cancer. I cared for him at home and after he died I remember the feelings of  "what do I do now" when there is just me.  It is hard, I don't know what else to say but am sending caring thoughts to you and your daughter.

Lynne.x

Thank you Lynne xx

Hello Jackie,

sorry to hear the loss of your dad its so sad i lost my dad also this month to lung cancer and like your dad he passed away very quickly after diagnosis. Its such a difficult time my dad passed away at home surrounded by  his 3 favourite special girls in his life (my mum, me and my sister) we held his hand up until his last breath he looked so peaceful but seeing what he had to go through and how he was in the final stages is truely heartbreaking. I miss him so much and want him back so badly.

my thoughts are with you and your daughter xx

Hi Jackie.

i lost my mum on Monday from lung cancer. It's turely unbelievable. 

I can't understand how one minute she was sat up drinking a cup of tea and now she has gone. 

Do you believe your dad is still around? I can't get my head around the fact that my mum has just gone, it's not possible. 

Have you any advise on how to cope? I can't stop crying, can't eat, can't talk, can't do anything really. X

My condolences.

In my opinion, what you do now is live. And concentrate on quality of life for yourself and your daughter.

Your parents live on through you and her and I suggest that your happiness and contentment would have been, and are, the most important things to them.

Regards

Taff