My Nan - Squamous-cell-carcinoma- I miss you

I'm heart broken ... my nan was taken away from me this week. She died at 2:45am on the 28th of June with all her family by her side. Brave brave woman! I wanted to know though how someone gets squamous-cell-carcinoma behind their eye and nasal passage ?! Why would the hospital not operate on her if there was a risk it would effect the brain eventually ?!!!! Maybe I'm looking for someone to blame as I'm upset but the chemo and the radiotherapy did absolutely nothing apart from knock her about.... I miss her so so much I've never seen anyone die before it's was traumatic to say the least xxx

  • Dear StacieR,

    I am so very sorry to learn of your lovely Nan's passing. I have no answers for you but I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you. I am glad that she had her family by her side when she died. I too was with my father and, as you say, it is/was traumatic. My heart goes out to you and all those who loved your Nan. X