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how is it even possible mum won't be here to celebrate her birthday on Monday she would have 57 and she s not her to celebrate my brothers birthday on Tuesday the big 21 and hasn't got mum to spend it with it's been just over 5 months since we lost her I find it hard to do anything just want it all to go away and gave her back before she was held hostage in her own body for 10 years with different types of cancers I still see my robin following me just can't get over that shes not here after all this time feels like she s in hospital and I'm not allowed to see her does anyone else feel this way that has lost a loved one my partner is taking me on holiday I think he's holding it will help me to get away from everything I'll never get over this she was my life the last 6 years caring for I gained a best friend I could talk to about everything and now I have no one to talk to or have a cry with 

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    I am so sorry for your loss.my heart breaks for you and your family.I honestly wish I knew what to say to you.my family and I started on this horrifying journey 12 weeks ago.my beautiful mum is dying of terminal lung cancer.we are totally heartbroken, in the not too distant future I will be where you are now and I'm terrified. I cannot imagine life without my mum,my best friend, my heart goes out to you.try to stay strong,my thoughts are with you xxxx

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    Hi Wendy My thoughts are with you, my mum was diagnoised with terminal lung cancer 18 February and died on Friday, it is terrifying, spend as much as you can talking to her she may not be able to say a lot but she can listen, I spent the Monday beore her passing consistent talking to her and it has brought me comfort, hugs sweetie

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    Oh I am so sorry to hear you have lost your mum,my heart breaks for you, I am truly sorryI can't image what your going through right now,I am terrifde for when this happens to us,my mum was diagnosed also in February, the 1st.she wasn't given long,just a matter of weeks but she is still here with us ,she is actually having a bronchoscopy this afternoon as they have found something else on one of her lungs,were hoping it's an infection, we're keeping everything crossed.

    Stay strong and take each day as it comes ,my thoughts and prayers with youxxxx

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    Oh I am so sorry to hear you have lost your mum,my heart breaks for you, I am truly sorryI can't image what your going through right now,I am terrifde for when this happens to us,my mum was diagnosed also in February, the 1st.she wasn't given long,just a matter of weeks but she is still here with us ,she is actually having a bronchoscopy this afternoon as they have found something else on one of her lungs,were hoping it's an infection, we're keeping everything crossed.

    Stay strong and take each day as it comes ,my thoughts and prayers with youxxxx

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