Yet another family member lost to cancer

Hi everyone,

I just found out last night when my sister phoned me frome Canada I have lost another family member to cancer. My fathers brother died over the weekend from prostate cancer, the same as my late father. I met him once when he came to England and once when we visited my dad in Canada. This brings the toal to eleven members now. I also have another one seroiusly ill with cancer.

This has just increased my resolve to do what little I can through the charities I am involved with, Brian.

Parents
  • Hi Brian

    Just wanted to send  you my condolences on the loss of your uncle, also to prostate cancer. It is never easy hearing such news but find your way of dealing with it, in that you continue to hep many charities as a very positive one and one I am sure your relatives would be so very proud of you.  Stay well and take care. Jules

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  • Hi Brian

    Just wanted to send  you my condolences on the loss of your uncle, also to prostate cancer. It is never easy hearing such news but find your way of dealing with it, in that you continue to hep many charities as a very positive one and one I am sure your relatives would be so very proud of you.  Stay well and take care. Jules

Children
  • Hi Jules,

    Many thank for the kind words Jules. It was quite a shock as I didnt even know he was ill until my sister told me about him. He had been quite active for his age. He was 92 so he was about the same age as dad when he passed.  He came over to England once and popped in to see us for a short while. Mum was alive at the time and she got to meet him.

    Cancer has really hit our family hard over the years.

    Thanks again, Brian.

     

     

     

  • Hi Brian,

    Hearing of a relative's passing when you are not aware that they are ill can be hard and I suspect your sister felt she did not wish to worry you especially as you are so far away. I have been notified in this way but often only after a post mortem as a couple of relatives passed away years ago without having the knowledge they had cancer.  Always a shock for the family/friends.   I am pleased that you had been able to meet him many years ago along with your Mum and despite his loss to cancer he lived to a good age like your Dad.  Take care.  Jules

     

  • Hi Jules,

    Many thanks for your kind words. I was contacted by a cancer charity yesterday who are doing some publicity about prostate cancer and they wanted to talk to me about my experiance and the need for early diagnosis. Coming just after the death of my uncle, I was very pleased to be able to help. They have written something and have sent it to me for my approval. They also want a photo.

    Take care sending kind thoughts your way, Brian.