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hi am Maggie I lost my brother last year to a rare cancer. Was a big shock to the family he was diagnosed 25 march n died 13 April so only had 3 was with him ...was worst 3 weeks ever  honestly ..watching him go threw treatment (chemo) which didn't work as he had stage 4 cancer n terminal but he wanted to try treatment ... cancer was in bones n organs n massive tumour in belly. .... he was so brave tho never complained just got on with it .... been so hard him not hear anymore n soon be anniversary his death  .cant believe its nearly a year tho .. god I have did lots crying threw the year

  • Hi there Mistybaby, welcome to Cancer Chat.

    I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your bother last year to cancer. Many people here often say that there's no time limit on grief, which I think is very true. And it can be especially painful around the time of the anniversary of a person's death. 

    I wondered if this information on our website about coping with grief might be of some help? 

    In the meantime, please do feel free to continue to post here about whatever you'd like to share. I'm sure many of our members will be able to sympathise with how you feel. 

    Best wishes,

    Helen 

    Cancer Chat Moderator