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Where do our loved ones go?

Marie26
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Hi all

Its been six weeks almost since my mum passed and not one day has gotten any easier. I am driving myself mad thinking about where she is now and I have never really thought about this before.

what do people think about spirits living on? Has anyone had experience of mediums? 

 

 

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    Hi marie26

    I am very very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved dear mum.

    I lost my dad nearly 6 months ago and every day I wander where his spirt is.

    I am a believer in mediums and have been to some very good ones in the past and believe that our spirits live on outside are bodies. 

    I have come across 1 white small feather in the passenger side of my car which was where my mum was the day before and a a true believer in that when a feather appears it means my dad has visited and he is near, they say that spirits send us messages through our dreams, songs and thoughts but we sometime are so busy that we do not see the signs, but I am now fully alert for any sign of my dad being near and this is what I hang onto

    take care of your self and stay on line as it is a great support network

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    Thanks Duchie. I think I am going to see a medium in hope that mum comes through, just don't know when the right time is. At the moment my grief is so raw I can't even eat never mind try and get a medium to connect with me. 

     

     

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    I too am a believer in loved Ones spirits living on. White feathers appearing and robins appearing in the garden. I always have a chat with them. Don't care what the neighbours think. 

    I too have been to see a medium following loosing my Mum but was told to leave it at least 6 months or they may not come through. Sadly I lost my Dad 5 weeks ago to Esophageal cancer and I will be looking to see a medium again in a few months time, in the meantime I'll be looking for any other signs around me.

    i take comfort in the hope that my loved ones are watching over me.

    Take care

     

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