My mum passed away on the 7th of this month from lung cancer. I'm only 17 and I don't know what to do. I've never felt pain like this. I miss her so much. I would do anything to speak to her one more time.
Oh I'm sorry to hear about your mother and your so young stay strong ..my mums got lung cancer too and she's only got days left it's tearing me apart I understand the pain your going through cause I'm going through that exact pain myself ..and she hasn't gone yet ..its so cruel I keep looking at photos from a couple of years ago when she was well do you do that? It's just little things that'll kill me like not having her name mum come up on my mobile when she rings me..keep going duck she's always with you and just remember all the emotions and feelings your feeling is because you were lucky enough to call her your mother.xxtake care and I'm always here for a chat if you need me.x
I am so very sorry to hear about your Mum's passing xx you are so young to be experiencing such a raw, high powered charge of emotions. Do you have family or close friends you can talk to? xx My mum passed away in September from a brain tumour so I can understand how you must be feeling. Be kind to yourself, cry as much as you want, it hurts more to keep it locked away.
There are some options for you. Cruse Bereavement is a charity that will support you. You can find their number online and I'm sure they offer services for teenagers who are grieving. Also, speak to your GP if needed, they can offer support too.
My heart goes out to you, I am much older, but lost my Mum and Dad a couple of years ago, when my daughter was your age. The loss of her grandparents hit her as hard as the loss hit me. Now I have cancer, and my daughter (23) is also feeling very lost and scared. I wonder if you have other family or friends of your Mum, who could be there for you at this time.
Hello I am so sorry to hear about your loss, i am a lot older but lost my sister at 53 this year . she left behind an only child 21 years of age. Towards the end of this terrible disease my sister was unware of anything and became almost a vegetable , her passing was sad but a relief that she was not in pain, her son grieved and is still grieving , a natural process that takes a long time . your mum will want you to be strong and carry on, remembering the good times. I am certain that you have family have friends who will give you lots of support. I feel your pain too as now my mum is in last stages of bladder cancer that has spread - my heart will feel the same as yours soon. Be strong as you can but remember no more pain for your mum
I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for their kind words. It really helps knowing that there are people who know how I feel. All my friends are supportive but they don't know how I feel because they haven't gone through it (I'm glad they haven't because I wouldn't wish this on anybody) I would also like to say I'm sorry for anyone going through this. Stay as strong as you can
