My mum passed away today

My lovely Mum lost her battle to stomach cancer today. 

She had been in a coma for 4 days so we knew it was coming, but it didn't make it any easier. I just don't know how to feel! I love my mum so much, and we've been close for my entire life. I'm only 22 and she never got to see me do so many things.

When will it sink in that she's gone forever? Part of me doesn't believe that she's gone.

 

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  • So sorry to hear your loss. Im also 22 and lost my mum over the weekend. She had ovarian cancer. After the funeral it sunk in and made me realise actually my mums not suffering no more from horrible pain. Everyone kept telling me this at the funeral. Im still hurting and crying and we willl never get over it but it'll become easier to live with. There's a part of me now that is happy knowing she's resting in peace now and not suffering no more, Nobody likes to see their loved ones in pain do they?

    Time is a healer. And you never know the funeral might make things a lot clearer for you, everybodys different, but i hope it does. You've gained a angel thats always going to be looking over you rememebr that. 

    sabiya x

  • I'm so sorry that you're in the same position! 22 is way too young to have lost our Mum's. :'(

    Thank you, that's made me feel a little better and like you said, at least she's not in pain anymore. It was so hard seeing her struggle , especially towards the very end. 

    I hope you're doing ok and are taking the time you need to grieve your Mum. Xx

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  • I'm so sorry that you're in the same position! 22 is way too young to have lost our Mum's. :'(

    Thank you, that's made me feel a little better and like you said, at least she's not in pain anymore. It was so hard seeing her struggle , especially towards the very end. 

    I hope you're doing ok and are taking the time you need to grieve your Mum. Xx

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