This is the first time i have ever used a forum of any nature, i am not sure what i am going to acheive but feel i need to talk now, i lost my lovely dad just over 4 months ago, being told we had months with dad after being diagnoised with terminal cancer , we lost him 6 days later, i cant get over the quickness, i was not prepared for this, are you ever?. How can months turn into days?