No words

This is the first time i have ever used a forum of any nature, i am not sure what i am going to acheive but feel i need to talk now, i lost my lovely dad just over 4 months ago, being told we had months with dad after being diagnoised with terminal cancer , we lost him 6 days later, i cant get over the quickness, i was not prepared for this, are you ever?. How can months turn into days?

  • Dear L_D

    I am sorry for your loss of your dear Father from this terrible horrible disease.

    I lost my dear Father on 3rd September after a brave fight against this disease, and never believed it would finally take him away from me.

    I t really hurts , the pain is heart wrenching and I was never prepared for my Father to die. Never.

    If I close my eyes I can sense him, which may be my mind playing tricks or convincing me but it does bring a small bit of comfort. 

    Not to sure what more I can say besides staying on the forum and we will help each other get through somehow and find some peace. X

     

  • Dear L_D

    I am so sorry for the loss of your father . i know exactly what youre going through ..i lost my wonderful dad on sat 17 th sept through brain and pleural mesothelioma..In about 5 months he went from working full time to a extremely poorly man ..which was devastating to watch happen before our eyes in such a short time.we  was told it was treatable but he never stood a chance ..hopefully we can put him to rest next week ..i am too in shock of how quick it took hold of him ..but i try take comfort in.. i wouldnt have wanted him to linger in pain or discomfort ..he went so peacefully. .

    Days pass in a blur and one day i hope i can think of my wonderful dad without it hurting so much ..

    The people who come on here and post ..give comfort ..encouragment and advice to anyone who needs it ..there will always be someone to listen when you need it most...even if its a simple hello or a virtual hug you need xx

    Take care x sarah