hi i lost my husband he had cancer

Hi this is not easy lost my husband at age 46 it only been a 8 weeks 

  • Hi jane I'm so sorry for your loss he was so young I to lost my husband 5 weeks ago to lung cancer he passed away 4 weeks after being diagnosed, it's very hard and I struggle to cope each day but what else can we do , but we are not alone there are so many in the same position as us, I I find this forum helps as I can talk about my true feelings instead of putting on a brave face for the sake of my children, if you feel you want to talk I'm here for you anytime let's be strong together I send you a big hug godbless Maria xx

     

  • Hi Jane I know how you feel, my husband was 51 years of age I feel totally robbed. He was told he had cancer on the Tuesday and died on the Saturday . He had a lead replacement of his pacemaker on the 31st December 2015 and was fine since then I believe that something triggered the cancerll When I asked the doctor I was told that is was a coienidence???? I don't think so. My husbands was secondary liver cancer with unknown primary, I really think that something was strange with my husbands case and I do know that doctors do hide a lot from families . Sending you lots of love xxx

  • Hi Jane, 

    On behalf of the Cancer Chat team I just wanted to offer out condolences on the passing of your husband.

    As you've mentioned coping with loss is not easy but we have some information on our website that may help at this difficult time. Just click here to find out more. 

    Just take each day at a time and remember that we are here for you if you need us.

    Best Wishes, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • thank you me the same put on brave face for famaily  no fair my husband had to die wish he was here xx

  • Hi Jane no it doesn't feel fair but we are lucky that we had our husbands in our lives, today wasn't a good day for me but I tell myself hopefully tomorrow will be better and I hope tomorrow is a better day for you to everyone says one day we will only remember the happy days I hope that day will come soon for us both sending love godbless Maria xx