loss of my mother

After my mum's brave battle with lung cancer she fell asleep 16th June. We finally laid her to rest with my dad on 5th July.

RIP mum and dad finally together again 

x

  • Hi Della

    i just read your post and wanted to say hi and hope you are doing as best as you can. I'm sorry to hear about your mum and your dad. I too lost my mum just recently to lung cancer. She was diagnosed on 22 March, passed away on 23 June and her funeral was 2 July. I don't think it really hit me until after the funeral and I miss her so so much. I'm organising a wee tea party in her memory this Sunday for friends and family whom she left gifts for so that is keeping me going and keeping me busy and positive. I still feel it's all very surreal and don't know what I'll do with myself once the tea party is over but I'm trying not to think too far ahead at the moment and just taking things a day at a time. If you ever feel like chatting, feel free to send a wee message :) 

    Take care, Clare xxx

  • Hi Della, 

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's passing and on behalf of the cancer chat team I just wanted to offer our condolences to you and and your family.

    I'm glad to hear that your mum passed peacefully and like you say, has now been reunited with your dad. I hope knowing that they are watching over you together is of some comfort to you at this difficult time.

    Wishing you all the best, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi della..

    just wanted to say how sorry I am that you too have lost your sweet mother, I know the hurt and pain you are feeling right now, I too lost my mum after she was diagnosed with lung cancer on March 22nd and sadly passed away on Friday 13th may 2016 my hearts completely broken my mum was my best friend and soul mate we were inseparable and just feel like I've lost my left arm , thinking of you all stay strong and cherish every moment spent with your mum xx

  • Thank you for your reply. I hope you are okay yourself it's very hard I still feel like she is still here at home like normal.  Miss her so much knowing she is with my dad is my only comfort at the moment x 

    Stay strong your mum will always be with you xx

  • Thank you so much for your kind words means a lot xx